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Dinokind
07-17-2005, 11:49 PM
Okay, as you may already know Im new to skateboarding and really wanna try this out. Heck I didnt even buy a board yet. But that unfolds my asking for help. Okay you see my dad doesnt like me to try "extreme sports" ie: skateboarding and scooters...Though its funny because he allows me to get a bike and/or skates. So now Im asking what you guys think is the best way to approach my dad on letting get one =/. Thanx
~Dino
spenser
07-17-2005, 11:59 PM
skateboarding doesnt even have to be extreme. youre not flying down 20 stair handrails right when you start. its fun too. you meet friends and all that. and its good exercise.
when you start, youre just going to be riding. not really even learning tricks right away.
and ps - scootering is not extreme.
crazy_dave
07-18-2005, 12:02 AM
Tell him that your using skating to express yourself, meet new friends, improve your fitness and balance and its just plain fun. If he says no to that, hes crazy, maybe even as crazy as me:D.
Dinokind
07-18-2005, 12:05 AM
and ps - scootering is not extreme.
lol yea I know just was getting point acrossed =)
just_skate_
07-18-2005, 12:16 AM
Tell him you want to try something new. Tell that it will keep you doing something else besides getting in trouble. Skateboarding makes me feel relaxed and it takes my mind off alot of sressful things while I'm doing it, try and tell him that. Welcome to RR and and hopefully you can convince your dad to let you skate, I think you will really enjoy it.
bmmetcalf
07-18-2005, 01:11 AM
Scooters!!!! Hahahahaha
MrMonkey
07-18-2005, 01:14 AM
Explain to him that bikes are way more dangerous. A big flying hunk of metal hitting you in the back of the head, or a smaller piece of wood, that if you get head height you're either, stupidly good at street, or stupidly bad at vert :-1:
You just have to explain how safe it actually is, show him videos and stuff, most really bad stacks only involve cuts and bruises, until you try harder stuff.
bmmetcalf
07-18-2005, 01:17 AM
Skateboarding is safer than football and baseball and basketball.
MrMonkey
07-18-2005, 01:18 AM
DON'T MENTION AMERICAN FOOTBALL. I found out that if you mention any sport with padding people will always say "Wear pads then, I'll buy them" jesus, who wants to look like Sir Lancelot while skating.
bmmetcalf
07-18-2005, 01:21 AM
I think that would look badass wearing armour all over your body while skating while holding a big sword.......
MrMonkey
07-18-2005, 01:22 AM
I think that would look badass wearing armour all over your body while skating while holding a big sword.......
Armour that weights about half your body weight, then a sword that weights a fair whack aswell. Yeah, you'd look cool, and you could beat off anyone you disliked. But you couldn't get off the ground.
Edit; Not beat off in a dirty way.
bmmetcalf
07-18-2005, 01:27 AM
lol beat off lol but what happens if it was all made out of paper............................................. ............./././...........//./.........
MrMonkey
07-18-2005, 01:28 AM
Wouldn't look anything like Sir Lancelot then would you.
bmmetcalf
07-18-2005, 01:29 AM
allitle sharpie cant do no harm
pop38
07-18-2005, 03:10 AM
allitle sharpie cant do no harm
Not yet anyway.
NitrousX
07-18-2005, 06:37 AM
You can get a bike and trade for a skateboard or sell it for money for a skateboard.
crypticpoet
07-18-2005, 08:38 AM
A recent survey taken in the USA states the following:
Sport | Participants | Total Injured
1. Ice Hockey | 318, 000 | 77, 492
2. Baseball | 2, 033, 000 | 326, 569
3. Basketball | 4, 527, 000 | 644, 921
4. Football | 4, 414, 000 | 334, 420
5. Soccer | 2, 825, 000 | 148, 913
6. Golf | 971, 000 | 39, 473
7. Snowboarding | 1, 037, 000 | 37, 638
8. Volleyball | 2, 732, 000 | 67, 340
9. Fishing | 3, 812, 000 | 72, 598
10. Skateboarding | 8, 238, 000 | 48, 186
Statistically speaking, skateboarding is one of the least dangerous sports you can do. I almost didn't start skating because I'm a girl and knew I'd get put down for it, but now I live for it. It's the best sport you could ever do because it's challenging and at the same time, so damn fun. When you've been practising a trick for months, and you finally pull it off, you get the best sense of pride.
Your father is a bit of a fruit loop if he can't see that in any sport, you can and probably will be injured. Skateboarding is no exception, but even the statistics say that you're more likely to get seriously injured while you're playing GOLF!
bmmetcalf
07-18-2005, 08:52 AM
fishing..........hahaha stupid asses
STR8 RIPPIN'
07-18-2005, 11:36 AM
[QUOTE=crypticpoet]A recent survey taken in the USA states the following:
Sport | Participants | Total Injured
1. Ice Hockey | 318, 000 | 77, 492
2. Baseball | 2, 033, 000 | 326, 569
3. Basketball | 4, 527, 000 | 644, 921
4. Football | 4, 414, 000 | 334, 420
5. Soccer | 2, 825, 000 | 148, 913
6. Golf | 971, 000 | 39, 473
7. Snowboarding | 1, 037, 000 | 37, 638
8. Volleyball | 2, 732, 000 | 67, 340
9. Fishing | 3, 812, 000 | 72, 598
10. Skateboarding | 8, 238, 000 | 48, 186
QUOTE]
hm intresting. just print that off and show him
MrMonkey
07-18-2005, 04:47 PM
Statistically speaking, skateboarding is one of the least dangerous sports you can do.
Actually from those statistics, it is the least dangerous sport :D
NitrousX
07-18-2005, 05:43 PM
Thats strange, Im pretty sure people get more injured plaing basketball than skateboarding. Me and my friends never get hurt. Well one got his front teeth knocked ou when he got blocked. Other than that me and my friend has alot of scrapes and bruises and my freinnd broke his arm...
Where did you get that? Is that fake?
How in the hell did like 70,000 people get hurt playing golf and fishing? wtf
vivalasteve
07-18-2005, 06:02 PM
you guys are all mildly retarded..what you do is go down to your local gun shop and steal and 9mm rite? then you go up to your dad and say "Yo dadio, lemme ride wit a board in da hood or i blow yo head off!" then out of scare tactics he'll have to let you get a skateboard!!!! its a flawless plan....or you could just do what the other guys said cuz this just mite get youy arrested...
NitrousX
07-18-2005, 07:10 PM
Skateboarding is safer than football and baseball and basketball.
No its not.
DON'T MENTION AMERICAN FOOTBALL. I found out that if you mention any sport with padding people will always say "Wear pads then, I'll buy them" jesus, who wants to look like Sir Lancelot while skating.
...uhhh...what?
I think that would look badass wearing armour all over your body while skating while holding a big sword.......
No that would suck.
MrMonkey
07-18-2005, 07:14 PM
Read my post, is it truly that hard to understand. I know it isn't as I am pretty good at speaking, typing and writing in my language. What I know from my experience, if you compare it to other sports that involve padding, Hockey etc people think you should wear pads. Bum Dass.
crypticpoet
07-19-2005, 01:29 AM
Where did you get that? Is it fake?
No, it was taken off a US statistic website thing. Some beuro if something...whatever. Anyway, it's not fake, it's true. And remember, that it's ANYTHING. Fishing....some people get hit in the face by fish, some people get their boats totalled by something, some people get their hooks in their own mouths, blah blah....so it's actually quite possible.
you guys are all mildly retarded..what you do is go down to your local gun shop and steal and 9mm rite? then you go up to your dad and say "Yo dadio, lemme ride wit a board in da hood or i blow yo head off!" then out of scare tactics he'll have to let you get a skateboard!!!! its a flawless plan....or you could just do what the other guys said cuz this just mite get youy arrested...
...We're mildly retarded? :-12:
vivalasteve
07-19-2005, 04:20 PM
actualy its just mostly me thats mildy retarded
crypticpoet
07-19-2005, 09:11 PM
But that can be a good thing!
lambodrifter
07-19-2005, 09:49 PM
you guys are all mildly retarded..what you do is go down to your local gun shop and steal and 9mm rite? then you go up to your dad and say "Yo dadio, lemme ride wit a board in da hood or i blow yo head off!" then out of scare tactics he'll have to let you get a skateboard!!!! its a flawless plan....or you could just do what the other guys said cuz this just mite get youy arrested...
Dude were not the ones who are retarted you when bam worshippers are trying to act ghetto. Trying to be ghetto doesnt make you cool or get you respect. Its also really not that funny...
Edit: sorry i thought you were being serious about the retarted thing.
vivalasteve
07-19-2005, 10:08 PM
lol im not ghetto...i live on the "nicer" part of town but im not rich either :(
bmmetcalf
07-19-2005, 10:17 PM
Ya I kinda hate how people watch tv and think whatever they see is kewl and hip. Mtv is a posuer magnet.
BLKLBLRULES
07-19-2005, 11:10 PM
just tell him you like it and you will skate then stick to your guns wethor or not he tells you to move i have move about 5-6 times now i am in luverne and its real chill hear so anyways it all works out for the better and he will let you skate if you hastle him enough
Dinokind
07-20-2005, 12:43 AM
I have the weirdest dad in the world.
Alright So I go to his room cruising and what not, prepzing a full length speech why I should have a board. So I ask "Dad, once I get my paycheck can I buy a board?" He peaks over his shoulder to my mom and she dosent say a thing and peers back to me and then Says "Okay go ahead" so Im about to go on ahead start my speech and then it hit me he just said yea. So Im about to leave then he says "in one condition....
.....You cant ride on the street.."
=/
So now on Sat Im going out to by my first board can you guys give me any ideas on what to look for?
bmmetcalf
07-20-2005, 12:47 AM
heck thats a good start well will they allow you to buy stuff on internet if so get a blank http://www.blankdecks.com
vivalasteve
07-20-2005, 03:14 PM
it depends what you like..if you like rails, funboxes, and flatland tricks alot get a board of a width of 8" or smaller. If you want to skate quaterpipes and half pipes and stuff..buy a board with a width of 8" or bigger....you want trucks with a width that comes withing a 1/4" to your fore..i.e. you have a board that has a width of 7.5...you want trucks that come within 7.25-7.75. For street trucks get lows..for vert get high. For wheels..if you like street get wheels with a diameter of 50-55mm wheels with a hardness of 95-100a..for vert get wheels with a diameter of 55-65 with a hardness of 97-100a..and for bearing I would suggest red bones. they are really cheap and are probably as good as some very expensive ones.....hope this helped you!
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