Breaking Up.....

[NIGhtMAre]

ok everyone, I need your help:

I've gone through 3 girls in 4 weeks and im currently dating one of them, now I think I need to stay single right now so I can focus on school and stuff. She goes to a diffrent school to and I dont completely trust her either.

So should I break up with her before it gets to serious or should I stick it out?:-15: or :-16:

[Freaky Styley]

StAY friends and see what happens.

[zeronoah]

i agree

[NIGhtMAre]

friends? but I mean this is getting more serious now, and I need to say stop. or do i?

[zeronoah]

you should just tell her that you want to take a step or two backwards.

[Anarchy_Skater]

or forwards.......

[NIGhtMAre]

I dunno guys. I think its that I dont trust her fully. I think she is gonna cheat on me, and she has a reputation of cheating. Im thinking about it...

[Anarchy_Skater]

so why the hell did u go out with her in the first place

[NIGhtMAre]

She was appling to my school, we hit it off. Now she didnt get accpected and I think when she goes back to her school shes gonna juggle two guys.

[robiskewl]

dude... three girls in four weeks is badnews. take a break.

[NIGhtMAre]

Yea thats what Im doing. Thanks guys.

[AIRZ1]

I wouldnt mind 3 girls in one year

[NIGhtMAre]

hehehehe, yea it was fun while it lasted.

[NIGhtMAre]

well its over :) and Im happier, she isn't though.

[sk8withtheforce]

well if she cheats on people then she deserved to be broken up with. Don't beat urself up over it and have fun now.

[NIGhtMAre]

yup :D thx.

[chickaboarder13]

obviously you arn't seroius. and if you are... i hope ur joking... i canot seriously answer this. what are you doing that they're dumping you? if you want a serious relationsihp get to know them good... and then if you really like them (you'll know) then ask em' out. do'nt jump into things, then you won't have to jump out.

[chickaboarder13]

oh anywho.. break up and stay friends with her. if she IS a good one she'll stick it out with you and know what you mean. just be honest and explain to her...

[NIGhtMAre]

I did, she told me to **** off.

[tryhard_skater]

haha. wat a *****

[DarkHawk2-2]

im lovin my girl right now. shes a lil intimidating cuz shes so hot but we have plenty of chemistry goin on. oh yea....

well.. ure movin on and so is she. good. pretty smooth goin' but i smell the tension.

[zeronoah]

me and my girlfriend have been together almost 5 months, its really awesome, but im really shy about stuff. i mean its not like i am intimidated by her or anything, shes not like the hottest girl ever, i dont really give a little shit about looks, i mean yeah good looks are definately a + but it doesnt matter to me really.

[Zac--]

It's way to early for you to be getting serious with a girl,Nightmare. The only thing that keeps people together are looks at that age,whether you think so or not,whether you're mature or not.

[mfstlnick]

^dido^ I agree with zac.

[TwiztidSkater15]

im prolly not right on syaing this but hell even at that age its not really dating, youre just kinda of hanging out i guess you could say. (just what i think though so dont take it personal)

[Ephieboy14]

>Ditto<

[NIGhtMAre]

man, being single is fun, skateign with buddie and stuff, I tookt he for grantite cuase I was busy chasing girls around

[DarkHawk2-2]

being in a relationship does have its disadvantages. sometimes i gotta check up on her, see how my lady is doing, can be a hassle. a hassle i sorta like having to do cuz it pays off in the end ;). other times i might have to ditch my friends for a little while to see her or whatever.

[chickaboarder13]

hah that's so cute. awww

[NIGhtMAre]

lol, u lucky guy u

[chickaboarder13]

lol see... okay take me for example... girls like a guy who's caring, who can do 'cute/sweet' things once and awhile atleast, who can be seroius and also be fun. who can be honest, faithful, and trustworth. who will always be there, who will hold em' when they need it, someone who will treat em' like a woman not an object, someone who's basically knows how to be a 'good guy.' and is fun and just an awesome incredible guy.

seems like jay has been treatin his lady well. awww lol... u 2 are just... 'aww' lol...

well i'm out... too much awwing at everyone else. lol

[NIGhtMAre]

ohh i see, thats cool, I guess

[Impossible]

Haha, messed up s- in here. I guess I said that because Ive never really had atrue girlfriend.

[NIGhtMAre]

ohh you havent? how old are u man?

[Gforce]

yeah, the one girl i thought i loved came here for one week, then left...she was perfect.....i've never been able to really love any other girl since i saw here...spoke to her..well, im done, i think i might cry, lol...

[NIGhtMAre]

woah man, that blows.

[DarkHawk2-2]

i dont know if im a good guy, i cant judge myself that way. i could be, idk. ;)

[Impossible]

13....well, I have had 2 girlfriends. One in 5th grade but thats just elementary school love. And one last year(7th grade)...we only went out for 2 weeks. It doesnt bother me a whole lot, but it can be frustrating sometimes.

[BakerStencil]

Dude don't get serious untill you know yourself, I mean your really young and I doubt you know yourself well enough to really get to know a girl really well yet. Heck I'm 18 and I'm not ready to get serious with a girl.

[Impossible]

Me, or Nightmare? Yeah, but thanks if that was to me.

[Snaker]

Checking in on my girl is the highlight of my day, because being with or even talking to the one I love is my favorite thing to do, even over skating or graphic editing.

[Ephieboy14]

Originally posted by BakerStencil
Dude don't get serious untill you know yourself, I mean your really young and I doubt you know yourself well enough to really get to know a girl really well yet.

^ditto^

yeah, even if ur 18, ur still finding out who u r

[NIGhtMAre]

you never stop...

[Gforce]

Originally posted by NIGhtMAre
woah man, that blows.



i think she might be coming this summer. if so im going to try n get her email, or messanger or SOMETHING! it's going to be like the will of god if she somes cuz man, she lives up in canada and it was a freak accident her coming here.

[NIGhtMAre]

where abouts in canada?

[Gforce]

uhmm, ontario? i think... Canning, Nicole Canning

[bananasoup]

Originally posted by Impossible
One in 5th grade but thats just elementary school love.


highschool love isnt much better. i disregard all the relationships i had in highschool as just silly highschool puppy love. the good stuff doesnt really start until youre finished school, ifyouknowhatimsayin?

[Impossible]

Yeah, I hear you man.

[NIGhtMAre]

ontario? im in ontario...to bad I dont know her though...

[Gforce]

i dont think shes there very often anyway.

[NIGhtMAre]

ohh alright then/

[chickaboarder13]

some peope meet their husband/wife in 5th grade. sometimes they meet them when they're 80. it's not about 'she said that he said that' it's like not like 'oh i think i really like you today' it's a feeling, not a label. love can't be described really.. you just know you do.. you know you'd do anything for that person and that they're just everything you could ever want in a person. love isn't somethign that can be seen or measured.. but i swear you can feel it...

[Biker_chick16]

By friends and wait it out, especially if you don't really trust her, if you can't trust each other then what kind of a relationship is that

[judaspriest]

I know what this young age like 11 thu 14 or so going out is like around where i am. It's like a guy and a girl get together. The girls all like "ooohhh i love u i love u ur so sweet" and stuff. Then once they get bored of u they just dump u with some lame excuse. Then rinse and repeat. It's like a game to most people. Not all girls are like that. But ones that aren't are very nice to be around. I know a dude that went out with this girl and they broke up and went back out and broke up and went back out and then finally she's like " this isn't working because you can't predict me. I can predict you." Then she blew him off after she had been all "oohhh i love you" The dude was like " People can change i like her" at first. The when she blew him off with that lame excuse he was all " i hate her what a Sl**." so ya i'm waiten to get serious realationships til later on.

[judaspriest]

Another thing is i was with this one girl and she was really nice. She wasn't no prep or anything. I'm 13 so really all we did was talk and stuff and occassionally get together at like a family get together or somethin. I even asked her dad first if i could ask her out. But now it's over and I've moved on so ya. And if you think about it gettin with a girl in 7yh or 8th grade might last till later and you end up gettin married and all but i feel like i wanna enjoy me highschool years. just hang out with everyone and have fun with my friends. Oh and when i was with that girl i was on the phone a lot and my grades dropped a bit. Now i'm grounded from the PS2 for the rest of school. Over a couple of lower than my usual grades. It SUCKS. Thankfully skating wasn't taken away.

[sk8withtheforce]

ahhhh! ancient thread revived!

[Gforce]

Originally posted by sk8withtheforce
ahhhh! ancient thread revived!


*thump* *thump*

I CAN STILL FEEL THE PULSE!!!

lol, nice avatar.

[oldscoolelement]

wow, ive never seen this thread b4, and ive got to say......you are all a bunch of pussies!!! my god, you are all like 13 and 14 and your acting as if youre life is over cuz u cant get a girl. i didnt have a girlfriend, a real girfriend, until i was 16, thats when i first got laid too, but when i broke up with her, no biggie, cuz we went out for 2 months,m thats nothing.

Originally posted by NIGhtMAre
ok everyone, I need your help:

I've gone through 3 girls in 4 weeks and im currently dating one of them, now I think I need to stay single right now so I can focus on school and stuff. She goes to a diffrent school to and I dont completely trust her either.

So should I break up with her before it gets to serious or should I stick it out?:-15: or :-16:
wtf? you dont go out with girls for a week, thats just hooking up, and if you didnt hook up, yous a *****. and what kind of girl wants to get serious in less than 2 weeks? a super desperate chick/ **** that.

Originally posted by Zac--
It's way to early for you to be getting serious with a girl,Nightmare. The only thing that keeps people together are looks at that age,whether you think so or not,whether you're mature or not.

zac, arent you like 14? shutup.

[rustyburrito55]

ive been goin out with my grilfriends fo like a year and a few months

[Griptape Flip]

i went out with a chick and she was awesome we stayed together for like two years then she dumped me! i was like WTF! she hooked up with my best friend! You will get over it just keep on walkin.

[mikejl29]

I went out with a girl and she dumped me after 3 weeks because it wasn't an adult enough relationship for her. Sorry but I prefer to crack jokes and ride my bike and I told her that from the beginning. Some girls are dumb, what else can I say.

[chickaboarder13]

it all depends on the two people.. it's more maturaty level than age.
alot of 'kids' (as in people who don't take relationships seroius.. this just happens to be usually the younger society) tend not to realize the point of dating and going out. it's not to just have somethign to do. it's to find what you want in a partner, and eventually to have the 'perfect' one for you. and what alot of people don't realize is you CAN'T lower your bar. or like what you want in a person. that'll only lead to a break up down the line cause whatever it is they do that you don't want in someone they'll do it and it'll pick and you and keep picking at you till you can't take it anymore. wait till you find someone who doesn't only meet the standards of what you want in a person, but they go beyond it. just give it some time.. and when you find it.. don't let it pass you by.

[Gforce]

welcome back chickaboarder..i thought you had left!

i think im going to ask steve to delete this post because too many people keep bringing to back to the top of the list..

[xkakerx]

Originally posted by NIGhtMAre
I dunno guys. I think its that I dont trust her fully. I think she is gonna cheat on me, and she has a reputation of cheating. Im thinking about it...

Hmmmm lets think about this.She has a reputaion for cheating,she goes to another school, you don't trust her,you want to stay single.....Iam looking into my crystal ball and seeing a break-up.

[oldscoolelement]

and why the hell does everyone and their mother have a boyfriend/girlfriend/both? when your that young, you follow the 4F rule guys.....find, feel em, **** em, forget em. im sorry ladies, but thats the truth, guys, REAL guys, dont like relationships becuase thats when (most) women get to be possesive of their "significant other" . you know what im saying, what im saying is, hve fun when your this young, theyll be time for settling down later. if u cant hold a girlfriend at this age, dont fret, youll be cool someday./

[xkakerx]

Originally posted by oldscoolelement
and why the hell does everyone and their mother have a boyfriend/girlfriend/both? when your that young, you follow the 4F rule guys.....find, feel em, **** em, forget em. im sorry ladies, but thats the truth, guys, REAL guys, dont like relationships becuase thats when (most) women get to be possesive of their "significant other" . you know what im saying, what im saying is, hve fun when your this young, theyll be time for settling down later. if u cant hold a girlfriend at this age, dont fret, youll be cool someday./

Oh so your not a real man unless you use and abuse.Or are you basing your opinion off the stereotypical 'can't do anything right, Iam dumb and lazy' guy personality.Iam not going to really argue.

[LethalDosage]

break up. girls are yucky. to me anyway. (no im not gay. im a girl)

[LethalDosage]

Originally posted by oldscoolelement
and why the hell does everyone and their mother have a boyfriend/girlfriend/both? when your that young, you follow the 4F rule guys.....find, feel em, **** em, forget em. im sorry ladies, but thats the truth, guys, REAL guys, dont like relationships becuase thats when (most) women get to be possesive of their "significant other" . you know what im saying, what im saying is, hve fun when your this young, theyll be time for settling down later. if u cant hold a girlfriend at this age, dont fret, youll be cool someday./

what the hell is your problem??? you're a loser if you think that. if you go by the 4F rule then you must have some std's or somthing. that's not right. you wanna-be pimp.

[chickaboarder13]

bastard.

[sk8er6792]

yeah i liked this guy(im a girl) and i was about to ask him out and my friend beet me to him so im mad

[oldscoolelement]

Originally posted by xkakerx
Oh so your not a real man unless you use and abuse.Or are you basing your opinion off the stereotypical 'can't do anything right, Iam dumb and lazy' guy personality.Iam not going to really argue.

i wouldnt call it using and abusing, first off, women like sex too, so if they guys getting laiud, the girls getting laid too, and if the guy is good, the girl will have even more fun than the guy, so shut the **** up.

[chickaboarder13]

dude.. maybe some girls would like to be treated like that.. but you put me in that category when you say 'girls.'

you don't know anyone's story. people shouldn't have to tell you what your saying is, besides sick and wrong, the most un-true biggest pile of shit and extremely rude and offending. You wouldn't know. You wouldn't understand what it's like to be a girl.. and never will. i do'nt want to tell my story. it hurts to tell my story, it's hurts to think about it. It seems like for you a relationship means sex. that's it. you khow.. whatever gigalo.. go for it. to me a relationship means finding someone you can be with forever. sex now and dying lonly or loving someone, dying not lonly (..while having sex (hah..oh yeah..jk)). i mean you can think 'wel when i'm older i'll change' but you have no idea how much your past reflects on what people will think about you...

my story... well.. there was this jerk. a ****ing wanna be pimp loser. i went out with him for 2 weeks. the 1st thing he'd say to my friends was something sexual so they all hated him. i didn't like him i was just scared of him. and yeah no one wanted me with him. he'd always be like 'oh i love you.' why? because he KNEW that was my weakness. he KNEW i have the hardest time being mean to people. he knew it and he took advantage of it. but i dumped him... but that didn't stop him... from when we were going out... till.. months later i was sexually harassed. all he every talked about was sex. all he ever did was try to touch me or did touch me. he was strong so he would corner me and i couldn't get away. he fricken wrestled. even kicking him in the balls didnt' work.. pushing him away with all my strength didn't work. people telling him to get the **** away didn't work. after months of putting up with this.. keeping it inside.. i told someone. and then i started crying.. i didn't knwo it hurt me that god damn much untill i let it out and i couldn't help but cry. i felt like a worthless peice of shit.. and there was nothing i could do. i ended up going to the counsler and i was in there for like an hour.. i had to tell her everything. every. last. thing. that he did to me and it was like re-living it. it was like all the little things added up and i cried some more. i never break down.. and i spent that whole afternoon in tears having to explain over and over again... so now... he obviously can't come near me, or talk to me or he gets expelled and cops get called.. he broke every harrassment rule in the book multiple times. and not only is that school rules.. it's breaking the law... he's already on parroll for stealling money so basicaly if he does something.. the stealing won't get cleared, and harassment will go on it too. but i still feel scared around him. and why? he has the idea that girls just want sex. that sex is just sex and has no effect mentally or physically. well no shit sherlock. it does.

you said "so shut the **** up."
haha no. you shut up the **** up.

[muzz16]

i bet someone's face is pretty red right now....

[sk8ter_37]

Lol i wen't out with this girl for 7 months and we broke up and wen't out 3 more times ad still friends lol...but we still did stuff...after we broke up lol it's all good..im trying to focous on school too ive been singel for like 3 months now and i feel goo i personaly like to be singel..most of the time

[NIGhtMAre]

dude, this thread is so old, kill it!

[sk8withtheforce]

I think I'll repeat what I posted around a month ago -
Ahhh! Ancient thread revived!
whoever keeps bringing this up stop it.

[NIGhtMAre]

CLOSE THIS THREAD, I dont wanna remember those times, lol

[Phi1_889]

yeah I wounld'nt like to remnd that!

[Ramp]