Relationship help....

[Biker_chick16]

Ok, I've been going on and off with this guy Kevin, but my friend Rachelle keeps getting invloved with it too. See, she likes him a lot but won't go out with him and then gets all mad at me everytime he and I get back together and then he breaks up with me and has Rachelle tell me. I found out that I love him and I'll do just about anything for him.... which I think is starting to freak him out cuz I wanna go with him or along his side with him as he deals with this gang prob. he's got, and he said "no." He says he cares about me, but he won't stay with me, instead he leaves and comes back and then leaves again and wants a relationship but won't let us be together, what should I do? I definately need guy's help or opinons on this, I love Kevin, when I see him I'm happy but I go those nights and feel like crying cuz I feel like I'm being toyed with betwen Rachelle and Kevin, and then I can love him but not be with him though he wants to be with me. Rachelle has even made me choose between him or her and I chose him, so please help, and sorry this is so long.... Angel

[Flip Boy]

Well choosing him was probably the worse idea you could have had. Now you have lost a friend and by the sounds of it a boyfriend too. I would leave him if he doesn't want to be with you, and if he has a gang then definately leave.. they offer up some nasty trouble for girls.

Well you have learnt a lesson to never choose anyone over your friends..

[Pariah]

don't try to stick with him. If he liked you he wouldn't put you through this hell.

[mikejl29]

Gangs are weak... that was a bad move.

If you break up with someone once... or even twice... it's not meant to be. Also, guys can be pretty damn good at sweettalking and girls will cave EVERY TIME.

[bananasoup]

Originally posted by Biker_chick16
he breaks up with me and has Rachelle tell me. I found out that I love him and I'll do just about anything for him....


ok, obviously he doesnt give two shits about you if he gets your friend to break up with you for him. how grade 5 is that? i mean, come on...
i wouldnt call what youre feeling love. its just lust. maybe you havent learned the difference between the two yet?

dont let yourself get walked all over.

[robiskewl]

put it in tha butt

[NIGhtMAre]

hhehehe, yea break up with him...

He is playing you which isnt fair for you.

[chickaboarder13]

No guy is worth your tears... look at it from a perspective of someone who has no idea who you or kevin are. it helps. there was this dude i thought was totally awesome a couple years back. and dude i thought it couldn't get better than him. then he started pulling shit... and i would cry.. and i would be like 'but no! he's the best! i need to change' but.. no. took me a couple months to really get over it. but then i said 'no way i could spend my life with him because of ___.' you can't change people... and don't change for them. this may not sound like anythying but hey... your guy is out there for you.. maybe you walked by him today and you didn't know it....

drop his sorry ass. ;)

[NIGhtMAre]

well said :)

[Biker_chick16]

Well Thanx

[zeronoah]

Originally posted by bananasoup
ok, obviously he doesnt give two shits about you if he gets your friend to break up with you for him. how grade 5 is that? i mean, come on...
i wouldnt call what youre feeling love. its just lust. maybe you havent learned the difference between the two yet?

dont let yourself get walked all over.

i didnt have a girlfriend in grade 5. yeah he sounds like a puss.

[DarkHawk2-2]

my philosophy is, when i break it off with a girl, its final. no goin back, thats wuss right there. When its over, then its over. No need goin to that person when it doesnt work anymore.

[Freaky Styley]

Drop them both and move on to better things and people!

[Anarchy_Skater]

um......yeah sure dump his sorry ass!!!!!

[Blind Sheppard]

Stop being friends with the girl if she made you choose between her and your b/f . Dump your b/f cos he's in a gang and he doesn't seem to care for you

[BakerStencil]

Originally posted by Pariah
don't try to stick with him. If he liked you he wouldn't put you through this hell.


Exactly don't let him toy with you.

[Biker_chick16]

well thanx every1 for ur advice, I'm tryin' but.... ya know how it is

[chickaboarder13]

BE STRONG!

[Ramp]